[mend] {one's} fences
1
to repair or restore one's relationships, especially after a period of tension or conflict
The origin of this phrase is unclear, but it is believed to have originated from the practice of maintaining fences or boundaries between properties. In the past, farmers and landowners would use fences made of wood or wire to mark the boundaries of their land and to keep livestock from wandering onto neighboring properties. If a fence was damaged or in disrepair, it would be necessary to mend it in order to prevent conflicts with neighbors. Over time, the phrase "mend one's fences" came to be used metaphorically to refer to repairing damaged relationships or making amends with others.
- After their argument, Jack realized he needed to mend his fences with his sister.He reached out to apologize and repair their relationship.
- Liza mended her fences by making amends with his family.
- The two neighbors mend fences by discussing their concerns and finding common ground.